Our Hero's Story
He came into our world at 9:43 am March 9th 2006. He left it to be with Jesus at 8:45 pm May 22nd 2006. Words cannot say how we feel. We don't feel much of anything right now. He was the love of our lives. He was truly a gift from God. He was our son. Thank you all so much for what you have done for us. You have lifted us high when we were low. You have demonstrated what the family of God is all about. It's about love. We love you and thank you. This will not be the last entry on Carter's page. His legacy will live on. I promised him that while he was in my arms tonight. His ministry will continue and someday we will be reunited.
Right now plans are pending on the funeral. We will update the blog when we know details.
On behalf of Carter, God bless you and thank you.
Love,
Gary and Sarah
posted by Carter Heckman @ 9:21 PM
37 comments
37 Comments:
Carter was one of the most beautiful babies I have ever seen. He was such a blessing to so many people in such a short time. He has probably touched more lives in the past couple of months than most people do in a lifetime. I'm glad we got to spend some time with him on Saturday. He was such a sweet angel. We will truly miss him. We love you guys.
The McKinleys
My Dear Sarah and Gary, I don't have the words to express how I feel. I am confused just like you. Let God carry you in his arms during this difficult time. I love both of you.
Linda D
Sarah and Gary:
I don't know what to say or think. Carter was the most powerful minister my heart has known. He was God's most beautiful angel on Earth. I am filled with regret that I never got to hold him and touch his face, as I feel that he was the closest thing to absolute perfection and innocence. Last night when I got the call all I could think about was a year ago when I shopped for a card for this little miracle that was coming into all of our lives, and now all I can think about is the moutain of people that this little miracle has touched, ministered to, and comforted in 2 and a half short months. Carter has inspired me to use my gifts for the benefit of others, and to also realized exactly how precious each second can be. If there is anything you need, you know where to find me. I love all three of you.
Amy
GARY AND SARAH,
MY HEART IS BROKEN, AS IS YOURS. YOUR STRENGTH AND BELIEF THROUGHOUT CARTERS LIFE HAS BEEN A TRUE TESTIMENT TO GOD'S LOVE. NOW IS THE TIME TO LEAN ON OTHERS AND LET THEIR LOVE AND CARING HELP HEAL YOU. GOD BLESS YOU BOTH AND LITTLE CARTER. A TRUE CHAMP.
MUCH LOVE.
WILMA B
Gary and Sarah,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all, as they have been for the past year. I hope that you can feel the love and concern from all your family and friends and that this will give you strength and comfort. We send you all prayers, love and many, many hugs.
Tom,Robin,Kyle and Adam Norton
Gary and Sarah,
My heart and love goes out to you both. Sarah and I are so sorry and I want you to know that our prayers are with you. You know that God is always with us so trust in Him now and let the Spirit guide you. Please let us know if you need anything.
I Love you,
Sean & Sarah Heckman
I can only hope that in my lifetime I am able to touch as many people through the heart of God as Carter did in his short life. Thank you so much for sharing his life, your love, and your grief. I just can't explain what it has meant to me. I continue to keep you in my prayers.
Jennifer Jones
Liberty Christian Church
My heart is broken. My thoughts and love go out to your family during this hard time. Even though I never got to meet Carter, know that he has touched my life. Let me know if there is anything I can do.
Karen, Phil, and Drew
Sarah and Gary
My heart goes out to you. I am so sorry. Everyday I would read Carter's blogs and cheer with his good days and pray during his bad. He was such a strong little guy. Must have took after his parents.
Again I am so sorry.
Whitney
I totally don't have words for this except I love you all and carters in a better place. I know that is hard to hear but he isn't sick anymore. God will take care of him until you all meet again. You all have become a VERY special part of my life and i will hold you all near always. I am determined to find a way to make that hosue work for others. Carter was a vaery special soal who touched more lives that you know. I will continue to keep you all in my prayers. much love moriah
Gary and Sarah,
Please know that our prayers continue to be with you. God will carry you through this time. Words cannot express how much we care and if there is anything that you need, we are always here for you.
Love,
Sheila and Jeff Ford
My heart sunk this morning as I read about your sweet Carter. I have never met Carter or you, but feel horrible about the pain you and your family and friends must be going through. My mother who works at Target, asked me to check on Carter's blog to see how he was doing two weeks ago. Since then I have checked on him everyday. I am so sorry about your loss. He made me realize how special and short life can be and not to take anything for granted. For this I thank him. Thank you for sharing his story with us it has truely touched my life.
Gary and Sara,
My heart goes out to you both! Carter was such a special gift and he will be missed in the nicu. It was an honor to have met him and you guys. He brought joy to days that I got to work with him. He was a fighter and had a great spirit. God will give you strength to get through these tough days ahead. I am praying for your family, I am sorry for your loss! Carter will always be remembered in my heart!
With lots of love,
Jessie (from KU nicu)
How Carter has touched so many in such a short time. Thank you for sharing Carter's story with us. He has been a messenger from our Lord to remind us of all that is important in our world. My prayers are with you all. Love, Lori Colvin
Sarah,
You are one of the strongest people I have ever known. It is no surprise what a fighter Carter was. He drew all of his strength from you. We're here if you need anything.
Monica
Gary and Sarah,
We cannot begin to imagine the hurt you must be feeling, but please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. We know the Lord has his arms wrapped around you and will get you through this difficult time.
Love,
Dustin and Stephanie Smith and girls
Dear ones,
Thank you so much for sharing Carter's life with us. You are an inspiration, and we grieve with you. May God bless you with extra strength and comfort now, even as you have spread so much strength and comfort to us.
Gail
My heart aches for both of you and your families. Know that you are being kept in my prayers. Even though I never personally met Carter, I feel that through this web site, I knew him. He was a mighty fighter and I look forward to meeting him some day in heaven.
I pray that you will feel God's arms wrapped around you and His great love for you.
Love
Igleedtis
Dear Gary and Sarah,
We were heartbroken yesterday, as every other post has said, Carter was so precious and what a gift! Thank you again, for sharing his story with us; he will continue to minister through his legacy and many lives will continue to be touched. Thank you for being so honest, and for sharing a faith and hope that have encouraged and inspired us every day. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, as well as the rest of the family.
With Love,
Pastor Mike and Aimee Krommendyk
Caring First Church
I am sitting here reading monday's entry over and over. I cannot believe Carter, who was so full of life and joy, has passed. Sarah and Gary, my heart breaks for you. Carter couldn't for asked for better parents. You are wonderful. I will continue to pray for your family. If you need anything, let us know. Hang in there.
--Jenn, KU NICU
Sarah and Gary,
I am so very, very, sorry to hear about Carter. He was indeed a very special angel that touched my life unlike any other. I hated to leave yesterday morning, I wanted to stay and do whatever he needed for as long as he needed. I cannot imagine how difficult this is for you and your family and I want you to know that I will be thinking of you and praying for you always. Carter was an incredible fighter and an incredible personality that I will never ever forget. He brought joy into everyone's life and that is a special gift to us. I pray that God will give you strength to see your family through this. Sarah and Gary; you are the most wonderful parents and Carter was truly blessed to have you as you were blessed to have him. I will be thinking of you all......
Love,
Rhonda (KU nicu RN)
Sarah and Gary,
My heart and prayers go out to you during this time. I cannot express the amount of sorrow that I feel for not being with you during this time or having the opportunity to let you know that I am here for you. May God shine his light upon you through this and for always.
Love,
Mika Snodgrass
Gary and Sarah,
Our hearts broke last night. We miss you, are praying for you and grieving with you. Precious Carter - so very sad you are not with us but we know you are out of pain and are with the ultimate healer. We'll do everything we can to lift up your parents and continue to support them here....
Your friends the Mausolfs
There is no pain like the loss of a child. Our prayers are with you. God is good always cling to that. He will carry you through these times of heartache. Larry and Carol Heintz
How hard it is to write and tell you our hearts are also broken. We have followed Carters daily messages from the start and even called Church frequently to see if there was any update. What a beautiful little angel. (I am an angel lover as I have worn an angel on my shoulder for many, many years to remind me of all the angels in our lives.) The strength the 3 of you have had is more than we can even imagine. Our prayers have and will be with you all - a truly beautiful family. God bless and keep you. Margaret and Bud S.
As I lay in bed last night after I talked to Faith I came to the realization that all of our children are not ours but Gods. They are on loan to us to care for as long as they need our care. You gave Carter all the love and care you had to give and he loved you back. I could see it in his eyes that night in the hospital. Just the way he cried when I had him but the minute you took him he was quiet and peaceful. He is in the best possible place now. I know that does not take the hurt away. I will be praying for the both of you to be able to find your strength and make it through this dark time. As the song says, Though the darkness closes in Lord, still I will say. Blessed be the name of the Lord. I know you will both draw from your relationship with God. My heart is breaking with yours and I will pray for you always.
There is a deep sorrow in our hearts and it extends to everyone touched by your son. We are so sorry. May our prayers and thoughts be felt by you all. Hear our cries my Lord and lift us up in our sorrow. Peace be with you. In Christ - Ken & Amanda
Sarah and Gary,
It was a sad morning today when I read Carter had passed. I cannot begin to imagine your grief. I am so sorry. Its amazing to me how many people were watching and praying for him, myself included. Most inspiring are all the comments, especially from the nurses who cared for him. We know that God has him safe in his arms and he is happy and smiling now without any pain. I am in awe of your faith and know it will comfort you durring this difficult time. Thank you for sharing your precious little angel with us all. He has truly touched many lives.
Katie Tingey
Executive Travel (Faith's former co-worker and friend)
Dear Sarah and Gary,
How my heart breaks for you! My prayers remain constant. No words seem right...so I'm sending you lots of love and hugs. Peace be with you. Love, Tammy K.
Our prayers for your family will not stop. Baby Carter is with his maker and for that we must rejoice. Everyone who knows you has broken hearts for you, but we know the strength of Jesus Christ will make you whole again. We will continute his legacy just as you promised to him last night. Carter will forever hold a place in our hearts. May God have mercy on you both.
Love,
Jim and Tricia (Harris) Friddell
The Impact of One Life
by: Roy Lessin
When a stone is dropped into a lake, it quickly dissapears from sight--but its impact leaves behind a series of ripples that broaden and reach across the water. In the same way, the impact of one life lived for Christ will leave behind an influence for good that will reach the lives of many others.
Words cannot begin to express the sincere sorrow I feel. Carter's life has touched so many people. My prayers are with the Heckman family.
Jody
Gary and Sarah--
My love to you both. I have no words tonight. But, I know where your sweet baby is. Your sadness must be overwhelming. I will continue to pray for you for prayer will be all that gets you through. God be with you--
Love,
Linda S
Gary and Sarah, we are deeply saddened by your loss. We know how much your child was loved by you and your family. Carter made an impact on everyone he touched. We will keep him and you in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Mark and Jill.
Dear Sarah and Gary,
The pain you feel now is unimaginable. Your family has been in our prayers and we will continue to lift you up. Thank you for sharing Carter with us through his blog. It has given us a small glimpse into your world and how precious your little guy is. We pray you find peace in knowing that so many people love you.
David and Michelle Miller
Bre and Ashton
GARY AND SARAH
PLEASE KNOW THAT OUR PRAYERS CONTINUE TO BE WITH YOU.GOD WILL CARRY YOU THROUGH THIS TIME.
MARYAM AND FAMILY(TARGET)
We go to church with the Neely's and they passed the information and web site on to us. I read your blog today and cried. I pray for God to comfort you as you mourn. My heartfelt prayers are with you! Kim Hubbard
I don't really know what to say here other than what has already been said a million times on here. I cannot imagine what you guys are feeling right now and I don't think that there is anything that I nor anyone else can say to make you feel better. You have helped Carter to touch so many lives in his short amount of time here and that is amazing. I cannot imagine how packed the church is going to be when I come on Friday. Thank you for sharing your story and I will continue to check this blog... I wish you nothing but the best to come. With Love, Trisha V.
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